There was a time in American history, where certain topics would silence a room. For instance, speaking about the rights of the LGBTQIA+ community would be met with silence, as would challenging how one handles their mental health. Not to mention, if one were to bring up sex and their sex life that same silence would fall across the room. Because America’s strange relationship with religion and the puritan concepts that arrived with the passengers of the Mayflower, have persisted through most of its history and brought forth a real sense of taboo on those very topics. But thankfully, we have made progress.
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For one can now talk about their sexual preferences and even enter into same sex marriage. Not to mention, we are finally talking about mental health on a regular basis, and we can indeed discuss sex and sexuality in general. But even then, we still have so far to go. Since some close-minded buffoons think that love should be restricted and the old mantra of ‘just push through’ still applies for fixing our mental health and of course…  some still cringe when sex comes up, and well… all of this has to stop. In part because it is 2024, but also because keeping topics such as these taboo causes more harm than good, and perhaps the time has come to showcase what kind of harm it can cause, to inspire change.

One way we can accomplish that, is through storytelling and it just so happens, that a short feature that screened at the Austin Film Festival, takes the time to offer up that kind of examination in Dirty Towel. Which is a story that introduces us to a girl named Charlie who receives some very harsh lessons from her mother. In that, mommy dearest, makes it clear that sex is a gross act that Charlie should never take part in. Simply because it makes her gross in her own right, akin to a Dirty Towel that no one will ever want again because no one wants to be around a woman that chooses such a hideous act, and those words hang with Charlie and haunt her deeply. Especially years later, after she has sex for the first time, leaving her to wonder what future lie ahead now that she’s committed what her mother has told her… is an ultimate sin.

Which is… the perfect way to explore how trying to keep certain topics taboo, can indeed cause incredible harm. Because truly, Charlie struggles with a supremely natural act here, all because of her mother’s words. Because we value what mom and dad have to say and if they tell us we will be forever sullied by an act such as sex, we will believe them, and that’s wrong plain and simple. Because it is downright abusive and traumatic and it does no good for anyone and can in fact, become generational in nature. Since the right individual will carry that lie on and that is one big reason why taboo persists. For we pass it down from generation to generation. 
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That of course, begs the question, how then do we shatter it, and the answer to that is explored here as well. Since there comes a point where Charlie speaks to how sex is natural, healthy, and should not be something we are ashamed of. So, choosing to break the cycle is a great place to start, and education is key as well. Since really, we fear what we don’t fully understand and well, a fair number of people don’t understand their sexuality or their sexual desires and education would indeed help them understand and normalize such matters, and really, that’s the key to breaking so many of the taboos we harbor in society. Because knowledge truly is power.

All of which makes for an incredible feature. For this film manages to cover all of that in a matter of twelve minutes, and its majesty doesn’t end with its intelligence. For it features some fine performances as well. With Emma Parks leading the charge as Charlie, since she sells the confusion and the shame her mother brings down upon her in a hyper realistic manner. Speaking of mom, Laura Coover is a revelation as Elizabeth, courtesy of moments that also feel akin to interactions and conversations we’ve had with our mothers. Truly, all of these elements combine to bring forth a supremely important movie. Because it finally takes a big problem to task in a frank manner that stays with the audience, and that’s a good thing. For it is high time we break the taboo cycle so everyone can live their life in peace and harmony.

There is a prevailing belief in our world, that in order to truly impact change and inspire others, we first… have to be in the public eye, and then we must inspire incredible change in society. Which will allow for us to be remembered for generations on end, and praised and believed in after our passing, and it makes sense as to why we hold to that. For history is made up of amazing individuals that did indeed stand tall before us and before adversity, and pushed the world to be more, to be better, to change with the times. And these are the folks we read about in the history books, and quote and speak of often, because they truly made the world a better place, and the vast majority of people out there… would love to do the same.
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But what’s fascinating about this belief, is that it is woefully incorrect in so many ways. Because we don’t have to be famous to make an impact in this life. Nor do we need to change laws and speak to seas of crowds to inspire people to be better, to be more. We simply need… to be good people. Good people with conviction that opt to chip away at barriers and do the right thing always because it is the right thing to do. For that too, can take people to task and leave them wondering if they’re doing enough in this life or if they can be part of something more, and if they create impact upon others, and for proof that this is the case… then look no further than the powerful new documentary, To Myself, With Love: The Bessie Stringfield Story.

Which is a story about a woman named Bessie Stringfield. Who people still continue to honor, long after her passing. For she inspired people to live life to the fullest and to live without fear, all because… she chose to rode motorcycles. Which is a statement that some will raise an eyebrow over. Because how the heck can someone riding a motorcycle inspire others? But that’s the thing, the details matter in her story. For Bessie was an African American, and in the 1930s… she wanted to ride bikes. Which in that era, was not something an African American did. But she didn’t care, she wanted to live free and enjoy the world, and she did. In fact, she rode across America, multiple times even, and was a civilian rider in the Second World War and she became an icon. Since she faced amazing challenges in chasing her passion… and she changed the world in doing so.

For this documentary correctly points out, that being bold and decisive in wanting to ride as far the bike could take her… broke down walls and was daring in its own right. Because the wanton racism that existed then (and sadly, still exists today), always put her at risk. In fact, the documentary recounts a few close calls she had with white men that didn’t care for her carefree nature and hobby. But she faced that bravely, always, and that is inspiring, since it motivates one to stand against that kind of hate. Oh, and she of course… motivated people to get on motorcycles and enjoy their wonder. Which is no small feat either, since they have their own stigmas about them. But there are groups now that ride in her name, and so many wish to a live a life like hers. One full of bravery and strength, and that makes her a hero for certain, one that has inspired unique change in so many.

But even that, doesn’t speak to someone that is ‘everyday’ of sorts. Because she had an audience, she had and has followers and people speak of her often. But thankfully, the documentary takes the time to explore Bessie’s life and times. So that we see, the regular person behind the icon. For we learn about her marriages, her losses and her wins, and her upbringing. All of which informs us, she experienced ups and downs like the rest of us and she was indeed a good soul that would always do the right thing. Which showcases, an everyday woman that found a way to be extraordinary and did her best to really get her message of bravery out. Not through speeches, or television interviews. But through her actions and interactions, and that… is what makes this story so beautiful and inspiring.

Because if Bessie can turn everyday decisions and desires into dreams for others and inspire others to be brave and be more through her raw passion… so, can we. So, what then is stopping us… from doing what so many of us want to do? Which is to make the world a little better, to leave behind a legacy, and that’s why Bessie’s story needs to be told and why this documentary needs to be seen. For it is a true hero origin story, one that lifts your spirits up and reminds you of our limitless potential when we apply ourselves to what matters to us in this life, and what happens when we are good and kind to one another. And that is the kind of inspiration we need right now, and it is magical to know that one woman’s passion for motorcycles, can provide us with what we need.

We live in a supremely unique era when it comes to fame and fortune. Simply because, in this day and age, anyone can become rich and famous, seemingly overnight, and it doesn’t take a whole lot to make that happen. You just need a good phone, the internet, and a hook. One that is either something new or something that builds upon something someone else has done, and with a little patience and dedication, you’ll be a star on social media and earning your way to grandiose fame in no time. Which is amazing, because this path has given rise to so many voices that would have gone unheard in the old era, where there were more gatekeepers to the world of fame of fortune.
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But what’s fascinating about this, is that one’s time in this new spotlight can fade as quickly as it started, in large part because of the lack of gatekeepers and shepherds. Because agents and managers can in fact, help people create sustainable content that allows for them to never fade, and having gatekeepers about can keep them from making foolish decisions or career ending ones. But alas, that just doesn’t exist, and plenty of folks lose what they had quickly because of stale content or bad moves, and having the dream of being the spotlight ripped way can impact a person greatly and perhaps drive them to desperate measures to reclaim what they seek. As to how bad that could get, well that is explored in The Ego Death of Queen Cecilia, a fascinating feature that screened at the Austin Film Festival this year.

Wherein we are introduced to a woman named Cecilia, who is not happy with her life in the moment. Simply because it wasn’t that long ago, that she was the queen of YouTube. In fact, she was known as Queen Cecilia, and she was truly the toast of the town. But somewhere along the line, her views dropped, the money and the attention dried up and she found herself struggling to maintain. To the point where she sold off assets, sold her house and moved into an apartment she hates. Wherein she tries desperately to revitalize her career whilst working side jobs she also despises. But there is a silver lining. For with a little cash, she can retain the services of an individual that can rehab her online presence, and well… she’s so desperate and so eager to be back at the top of social media… that she’s ready to blackmail a former classmate turned drug dealer to get the money she needs. A decision… that will make her struggles all the more difficult when his boss discovers what she is up to.

Which is… the perfect way to explore the central theme. Because truly… Cecilia is a broken individual. One that really did get drunk off of fame and wants it back badly, and sinking to poking about with drug dealers is quite the low. Because they’re not people to be messed with, in any capacity, but that’s how bad she wants this, that’s how bad she needs that money and that leads to a harrowing journey where her morals are tested, and that explores that under the right circumstances, how people will do whatever it takes to be in the spotlight. Oddly enough… that exploration leads to some amazing commentary regarding fame. The kind that speaks to how we have made it a true obsession in the modern world. Which in turn allows for this story to go deeper with its commentary and explorations. Since it also ponders upon, why this kind of fame is such an obsession.
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Because think about it, so many want what Cecilia has, and so many want to be the next YouTube star. But why? Why is that the ultimate goal and this film correctly points out that for a fair number of people, it’s about being seen at last. At finding worth through the roar of applause and legions of fans that adore them. Which is expressed through small moments with Cecilia. Since she is oft offended by people who no longer remember her from ages ago and how she constantly hangs onto those moments, and the horrors of losing her fan base. Which in turn, allows for the film to outright inform the audience… that the why should be something deeper, something more powerful. It should be because you want to entertain or want to tell stories and enrich other’s lives through your talents. Because being famous just isn’t enough and solves nothing. Which makes this a poignant and powerful feature, one that is supremely creative and engaging.

For the worst-case scenario that Cecilia goes through, makes for an engaging ride, one where you learn to care about Cecilia and her well-being, and her journey also allows for the messages to be easily digested. Because this one has a lot to say about fame and fortune, and the state of the world of the self-made star and well, it’s about damn time a move pondered upon such matters. Because the world is simply obsessed with likes and clicks and the next hot thing, and sadly… so many want to be that… to just have their moment. Which makes this a brilliant film, one that is an absolute must-see. Since it features a refreshing and original plot that is moving, and intense and stays with you long after it comes to an end. Thanks to its powerful commentary regarding a complex wish that so many harbor.

There comes a point in our lives, where quite the epiphany washes over us. In that, we only have so many years in this life, and because of that… we should do everything we can to make great memories before we can no longer do so. For old age does indeed rob us of mobility and sometimes, our memories and that’s why we act quickly after that lesson. To get those memories and enjoy life before our bodies no longer allow us to, and what’s fascinating about this epiphany, is that it tends to arrive later in life rather than sooner. Usually after a health scare, brush with the end or through the power of loss and grief. Because then our morality is right in front of us. 
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However, for some, this epiphany comes forth at a far younger age, and for vastly different reasons. Because the universe is a strange and sometimes unjust place that puts people in situations, they aren’t ready to face, even when their whole lives are ahead of them. Which begs a big question, how does one respond to such matters, at a young age? For that is so much to process, and young minds aren’t always ready to think about death, or loss, or the possibility of having their lives change in a drastic manner through means that aren’t easy to digest. If anything, this scenario and that question are top of mind today, because they are what one family faces in the new National Geographic documentary, Blink.

For this particular feature introduces us to the Pelletier family, who seem like an everyday family that is not facing strife when we first meet them. But there is a hidden surprise that has put this family at a crossroads. In that, three of the four children of this family have a disease that will rob them of their sight as they grow older. Which leaves their parents shocked and unsure of what to do at first. That is until they settle upon a unique course of action. In that, they choose to pull the kids out of regular school and sink every dollar they have, into traveling around the world and completing a bucket list, so that these children can experience life and store memories of its beauty before they can no longer enjoy it with their eyes, and that makes… for a unique and moving story.

One that first and foremost, addresses those questions and that concern immediately. Because we’re talking about grade school children here who in a short time, won’t be able to see the faces of their loved ones or ponder upon the majesty of a sunrise or sunset, and that’s a lot for a parent to process. Heck, it’s a lot for the viewer to process. Because we can barely ponder or perceive the possibility of losing our senses at any age, so for a kid to face that… is daunting and devastating and well, much like the epiphany we reach later in life, there’s strength to be found in what this family decides. Because it’s a big deal that they choose to give these kids a chance at making memories quickly, to cherish them always, and the journey offers up some real inspiration for the audience.
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Because we of course, follow them on their global journey, and while we are privy to beautiful locations and moments that are special and unique… we do gather some powerful lessons from this family’s incredible adventure. In that, their journey reminds us that life really is too short, and anything can happen to us at any time. So, we should not wait to live life to the fullest and soak up incredible experiences every chance we get. Granted, yes, that is always easier said and done, but it is a lesson to take to heart and apply in other ways on a smaller scale. But if the means are there, and the window is available, we should take it… because what harm can come from living life to the fullest and being part of the world that we dream of exploring?

All of which makes for a powerful and dynamic documentary. One that is also supremely moving in nature since we are indeed privy to so many emotional moments with this family. For we are there as they experience joy, sorrow, and just the emotional difficulties that accompany traveling the globe, and this documentary deserves a round of applause for presenting that in an honest manner and for giving us a story… that is brave and bold. Because it takes guts from parents to openly admit the struggles their children are facing, much less let an audience/camera crew document a push to give them a lasting gift before a disease robs them of so much. But we get that honesty here, and we are indeed left transformed when this story is over, since we are reminded, that the moment is all that matters, and we should grab hold of it tightly.

Often times, stories that feature individuals that have had some kind of run in with the law and are currently trying to put their lives back together, are supremely positive in nature, and understandably so. After all, that individual has done their time, and clearly are reformed enough to be granted a release. So, it stands to reason that a story focused upon a person like that, would showcase a desire to return to society and enjoy a second chance, and likely settle some old scores the right way. To find peace, to show the system works. But let’s be honest… that really is the best-case scenario when you think about it, and true escapism from a storytelling standpoint. Simply because, those stories aren’t the constant in our world, and if they were, crime would be relatively nonexistent. Because that would mean the system does work and people do learn and grow from their mistakes.
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But the truth is, it doesn’t, and people head in and out of prison in a revolving door style. Sometimes because the system is indeed against them or because they simply didn’t learn a damn thing, and did enough in prison, to get the hell out of prison. Only for them to slip back into old haunts, and it’s devastating to know that some people don’t learn from their mistakes and fall into cycles and traps and do more harm on their way back to jail. So, in many ways, it makes sense why we try to find the positive in such matters, but in reality, we should not. We should showcase a grittier side to the system, and what people really do when they get out of jail. So that at last, we can no longer ignore the broken nature of the system and how it creates lifetime criminals and how the right lessons aren’t being learned within its walls, and it just so happens that a short feature that debuted at the Austin Film Festival, takes the time to do just that. 

Which is a feat that Vial accomplishes, by introducing us to a man named Ken. Who is a recovering addict that has finally escaped the clutches of prison for drug related charges and at first glance, appears to be following the standard story we are used to. Since he’s out in the world, in awe of the changes that have come forth while he was away, and he is even working hard to make sure his son has what he needs and wants in this life. But alas, there is a slight problem when it comes to Ken’s second chance. In that, he still struggles with addiction, and he’s on the hook for standard testing with his probation officer… and in his system are traces of his last use. Which means, that unless he wants to go back to prison, he is going to have to go to extremes to maintain life on the outside, and in order to do that… he needs clean urine and a delivery method for it. A sobering reality that puts Ken in a tough place, wherein the choices he makes… will change his life forever.

Which does indeed bring forth, a powerful tale for certain. One that truly does showcase how the system as it stands, does not work. Because clearly, Ken didn’t learn a damn thing while he was in prison and the system didn’t do him any favors in getting clean. Since he is still an addict when we meet him, and that reality brings forth an intense journey for certain. Wherein we watch a desperate man do desperate things to maintain that freedom and maintain the life he so badly wants. In the most heartbreaking manner possible, no less. That gives rise to tragic moments, really, the kind that shock you and stay with you, and truly showcase… how things really are for former inmates in our world, and how we the people… need to demand better of the system. So, that the tragedy that is Ken’s journey here, never comes to fruition again.
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Yet, while the feature’s commentary on the system is spot-on and engaging, there is still so much that that this film has to offer. For it also provides us, with a fascinating look at the power of substance abuse and the strength it exerts over people. Because we really do see Ken struggle with living within two worlds. For part of him is desperate to be near his son, so he can raise him right and see him grow. Yet at the same time, he’s all about that fix, and the sheer thought of someone buying gear and cultivating urine to pass a drug test… is wild… but it’s very real. Because there are indeed people who struggle with addiction, that lead two lives and do their best to hide the truth from their loved ones because of the power it exerts over them and the peace it brings them, and this feature deserves a round of applause for showcasing such uncomfortable truths about addiction.

If anything, all of these elements bring forth just a stunning feature. One that really reflects a slice of life that we don’t think about or talk about enough. But we should pay attention, and we should start discussing such truths. Because that’s the only way change will come forth, and all of this is expressed over the course of fourteen minutes. Which is no small feat, but director Alexandre Davis, working with a script that they have co-written with Robert Capron and David Holmes, brings about a tour de force story. One that is well-acted as well thanks to Joel Austin’s revelatory turn as Ken, and truly… this is an important piece of cinema. One that has a lot to say about the state of the system, and how badly it is failing people that are in need of support.

What is genuinely fascinating about historical moments, the ones that people will study for generations on end, is that… no one has a clue that those moments are historical in the slightest when they happen. For when it comes to the persons going through them, it’s just another day. One that started out like any other, with breakfast, a shower, and everyday thoughts. But just like that… something happened. Something we reflect upon now and they had no clue this was how the day was going to go, and it is just wild to know that history is made in such a simple manner. That decisions brewing far away from our own can give rise to lead to moments that we reflect upon forever and what’s equally as fascinating, is how we pay little mind to how those moments influence the future.
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Take for instance, how we digest and receive news. Because if something big happens in the news, we know about it, quick. For the networks with bust into our daily viewings with a BREAKING NEWS segment that informs us what is going on, and the news channels will ponder upon what happened and offer any updates, constantly. All thanks to the twenty-four-hour news cycle. Not to mention, through social media we can dig into live updates and just be in the moment. But it wasn’t always like that. The news used to be reported a few times a day and that was that. We would head off to bed and see what the morning broadcast or newspapers had to offer. But that all changed in September of 1972, courtesy of a historical moment that simply came out of the blue in the most nonsensical of places, and it just so happens that brand-new film from Paramount Pictures ponders upon that moment, in September 5.

Which is a story that plunges us into the heart of Munich, Germany in the early hours of September 5, 1972, in the midst of the 1972 Summer Olympics, and in this time period we are introduced to the Sports team from ABC. Who are doing some extraordinary stuff during the games. Since they are able to get a live feed of the Munich games out to the world, a first, made possible through new satellite technology and well… what seems like just another day for the rotation crew, turns out to be anything but. For in the early hours of this fateful day, shots are fired in the Olympic Village and just like that… this intrepid crew of sports reporters find themselves in the midst of a historic event. For soon they learn that the terrorist organization, Black September, has taken the Israeli athletes’ hostage in an effort to gain political swing, and it is up to this team to tell the story live. A move that will forever change how we consume news, courtesy of a powerful moment in history.  

Which is… the perfect way to explore the nature of how history is made and how one day can change so much. Because this story makes sure to showcase, how this was a day like any other. That everyone involved in the ABC Sports Newsroom had no clue that history was on the horizon and that their actions would offer influence for decades upon decades to come. They just did their job, and in doing so… created the modern news cycle. Since the work of these individuals showcased how real-time news could inform us like never before and impact us like never before. Not to mention, it showcased how there was a real appetite for live news, and that the demand the people put forth after this fateful day, would bring about the news cycle as we see it now, so we could be in the know and feel a real sense of knowledge and power from being up to date on world happenings.
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But while that does make for some fascinating lessons regarding history and our world and how it all comes together, this is also… a critical re-telling of a devastating day in history, and that allows for the film to tell a very human story. About a group of reporters and producers that really didn’t know what was happening and had to react to the horrors of a hostage situation in real time. Which adds a stunning sense of realism to this story. As though we have been transported back in time to 1972, wherein we can live out how the day unfolded with this crew and that makes… for a compelling viewing experience. One that is intense, and riveting, and truly draws you into the moment, and it even educates along the way. Since not everyone knows all the details of what happened on this dark day, and that is important… since it keeps the memory of those lost during this tragedy, alive.

All of which gives rise… to an incredible motion picture. One that does indeed offer up a unique perspective on history, how it’s made and how singular moments and decisions can have a lasting impact for decades on end. Along with a powerful history lesson that truly reminds us of how quickly the world can change and the darkness we are capable of, and all of these elements, and the fine performances present from the cast… make this a must-see feature. Simply because it is important, pertinent, and downright poignant. Since in a way it helps us to process the waves of history happening now, courtesy of a powerful story that reminds us of the lives lost on this tragic day, and how their deaths, changed the world in ways we never thought possible. 

It really is quite amazing, what the marketplace for documentaries looks like right now. Because they are popular and they are everywhere, and right now… there are so many that at last, some critical stories are being told about big moments in our world and important things happening in it right now. Which is giving rise to stories that have never been told before… but need to be, and for proof… look no further than a documentary that recently debuted on Comcast.

For they just premiered Out Blues Make Us Gold. A powerful documentary that chronicles North Carolina Agriculture and Technical State University, which just so happens to be the country’s largest historically black university. And this particular tale explores the school and its students’ contributions to STEM education and agriculture and well, this is indeed an important story to tell. One that celebrates education and offers representation and inspiration and well, since this is a critical story to spotlight, here are all the details on this release and a trailer for it, courtesy of Comcast.   

‘Comcast today announced the exclusive premiere of Our Blues Make Us Gold, a feature-length documentary that examines the history and global impact of North Carolina Agriculture and Technical State University, the country’s largest historically Black university, from filmmakers Brandon Gerard and Ashley Shante. The documentary is available for free as part of Comcast’s Black Experience on Xfinity and Xumo Play. 
 
Launched in 2021, Comcast’s Black Experience is a comprehensive content destination that features the ultimate in Black storytelling from diverse programming partners and film studios and has released a variety of original documentaries to showcase diverse talent and content creators. Black Experience is available across Xfinity’s entertainment devices, including X1, Flex and Xumo Stream Box, as well as on Xumo Play, a free ad-supported streaming TV (FAST) app available on major streaming platforms.
 
Our Blues Make Us Gold explores the legacy and future of North Carolina A&T and captures the university’s unique position as both a powerhouse in STEM education and a historically agricultural institution, sharing the voices and viewpoints of alumni and students who bring its story to life. 
 
“We are honored to collaborate with filmmakers Ashley and Brandon to bring this remarkable documentary to the Black Experience on Xfinity and Xumo Play,” said Loren Hudson, SVP & Chief Diversity Officer, Connectivity and Platforms, Comcast.
Behind the lens are Ashley and Brandon, a husband-and-wife duo with over 20 years of professional experience in film production. Through their production company, From A2B Entertainment, they deliver stories that blend emotional depth with a fresh, contemporary style. 
     
"A few years ago, I was in the writers room pitching for a new character to be an HBCU graduate,” shared Ashley. “The painfully loud silence of my colleagues was eventually followed by really insulting questions. I left the room feeling angry that day. That anger fueled the conversation I had with Brandon, which resulted in our big idea, to show the greatness and impact of a real life HBCU and bring it to a mainstream audience. We were told many times this couldn't be done. We refused to accept that."
     
“We wanted this film to feel like stories by the campfire with ancestors, mixed with the urgency of a call to action to protect sacred and necessary institutions like North Carolina A&T,” said Brandon. “We are thankful to Comcast, Xfinity and Xumo for partnering with us to amplify the stories of our community’s real-life superheroes.”
 
Xfinity customers can find the Black Experience on X1, Flex or Xumo Stream Box by saying “Black Experience” into their voice remote. X1 customers can also enjoy a curated channel of some of the best and most popular programming Black Experience has to offer on channel 1622 within the programming guide. Additionally, the Black Experience destination and channel are both available on Xumo Play, bringing programming like Our Blues Make Us Gold to customers across the country.
 
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We are living in quite the unique time from a generational standpoint. Because it can be safely said that for the first time ever in modern society, that there has never been such the divide between the various generations. For the generation that came before, really does have a different view of the world and it’s worth to them and others. To the point where they so desperately want old traditions to continue, and they want to hold tight to items that they worked so hard to obtain, and pass them down as was done for them, and their fight to keep all that alive exists… because of the next generation and their particular views on the world.
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For they don’t believe quite as much in the value of material items and are eager to shed them if they don’t serve a sustainable purpose anymore. And of course, they are eager to change old traditions that they feel no longer serve the public in a beneficial manner, and well… that conflict continues to grow, and it does leave one to wonder… can we find common ground? Wherein the last generation isn’t so desperate to hang onto what once was and where the new generation can honor what came before them in a manner that doesn’t keep toxicity alive? Well, it just so happens that a beautiful short feature that screened at the Austin Film Festival answers those questions in A Better Place.

A feat this film accomplishes by introducing us to a young man named Henry. Who lives in the city and has made quite the life for himself working with a real estate development company, and when we meet him, here, he’s come home to his family’s farm for the weekend. In part to check in on his parents, but also… to provide them with quite the offer. For his firm wants the land and they are ready to pay to have that land. But alas, Tzu-Yi and Lisa, his father and mother, respectively, have little interest in selling. For they want their legacy in this place to stand, and they want what they built to be handed off and kept up in the noblest manner possible. Which brings forth, a tense weekend where two generations will ponder upon the power of progress, and the importance of nostalgia.

All of which brings forth, a magnificent feature that properly explores the divide in question. Since we do see Tzu-Yi and Lisa, fight hard to maintain what they earned, what they believe is their sole gift to their son to make sure they are forever honored. Whereas Henry makes it clear that time marches on and that this is a chance to give them real comfort and real joy since the money will do so much and they can make new memories in a new home, and honor the past in comfort  Which brings forth a powerful bit of conflict where neither side wants to listen to the other, and that… is our source problem. In that, two generations want their way and aren’t willing to compromise or speak to one another on the matter.

Of course, this film does take the time to build upon that and showcase that despite our differences, yes, we can find common ground. Provided that we first take that all-important time to listen to one another’s concerns about what’s happening in life and what we want out of it… and find compromise. Such as say, learning how to honor what is actually important and meaningful for the last generation. So, they feel their efforts are not in vain and that a legacy exists for them. As for the next generation, it’s all about being open to change and hearing new perspectives and coming to understand there are other paths forward than the old ways, and when both sides can have that, a better place can be found.

If anything, all of these elements bring forth, a powerful and beautiful feature. One that is so incredibly timely. For this is the divide we face in 2024, and this is a divide that is seemingly endless. But this does give us a way forward, one that we should enact in our lives as soon as possible. Because our own parents have an idea of what they want to leave behind, and we all have a path we want to forge ahead, and that message comes courtesy of a film that truly examines this in an organic and realistic manner. One complete with compelling performances and nuanced moments that speak to how there is common ground to be found, if we take a moment to listen to one another for a change, and really hear what the other side has to say.

Caution: This article contains discussions regarding suicide and suicidal ideation, which may be triggering to some individuals.
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Despite the fact that we live in an era where science and society is finally turning its attention to mental health and our need to maintain it with the same urgency and care as our physical health, there are some topics on the matter that are still seen as taboo in nature. Such as suicide and suicidal ideation, and well… it does make sense as to why we shy away from discussing such matters. After all, the thought of someone wanting to end their life is unnatural to us. Because we are taught to cherish life and do what must be done to preserve it, especially our own. Not to mention, there’s so much beauty in this world, it makes no sense as to why someone would decide this. 

Plus, it’s just scary. Scary to think that someone would be ready and willing to think about their own death, much less carry it out, and that fear makes it all impossible to comprehend. But the fact of the matter is, there are people in this world that really feel as though that solution is their only hope, and we have to stop holding to stigmas and fears about such matters and address the reality that people feel this way and want to make this decision. So that we can properly understand what leads to this and work to prevent it through real help to those in need and well, it just so happens… that a motion picture that recently screened at the Austin Film Festival… works to offer understanding on such a concern, and that makes I Hate Myself and Want to Die an important feature. 

One that takes the time to introduce us to a man named Jacob who has made quite the decision when we meet him, here. In that, he’s ready to die. He’s had enough of life, of his failures and now seems like the right time to just leave what little he has to his close friend, Russell, and just fade from this life. But his attempt to end his life, does not go according to plan. Not to mention, before he can make another attempt, his mother and others come calling and are in need of his help. Which frustrates Jacob to no end but does not stop him from stepping in and giving others a few more minutes with him. Because despite being derailed, he still has a plan to exit this life, the only question is whether or not he can keep his plans a secret. Since deep down he knows doubt will creep in if someone takes him to task over his dark decision.

Which is a plot that perfectly explores the nature of suicidal ideation. Since we are plunged into the middle of Jacob’s struggles and that does help us to come to understand what motivates people to want to end their lives. Granted, this isn’t the be all understanding, but we are able to understand that great failures and rejection and a lack of self and external worth… can devastate a person’s psyche and put them in Jacob’s shoes. Where they feel there’s no point in going on and that’s powerful to say the least. Since that’s more exploration and discovery than most stories put forth regarding this matter, and it is presented to us in a frank manner, so that we see these kinds of struggles in an objective light. Which helps to remove stigma and taboo, and above all, helps us to recognize symptoms and how we can help.
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What that looks like, we will get to in a moment, because we need to further deconstruct how the story makes these lessons so incredibly impactful. In that, the movie also makes use of humor to properly explore such matters and that’s huge. Because humor disarms a mind and removes worry and discomfort. Which allows for the information we receive to stick, and it allows for some entertainment to come into play so that the story never overwhelms and never makes one uncomfortable. That is of course, no small feat. Since this remains a tough topic, and in many ways, the comedy here should serve as a blueprint as to how other stories down the line can better examine this topic and get their point across regarding it. 

But for the sake of this story, such approaches make it clear… these struggles are very real, and that when someone is down and hurting badly… we should not just leave them to their own devices and hope they’re okay when they’re hurting so badly. We should step in, check on them, remind them that we cherish them. Because that can make a world of difference. Will it solve the problem? And save everyone? Likely not, but it is more than we are doing now, and we need to start somewhere to stimulate change, and that is why this movie is so important. Because it acknowledges the problem, it acknowledges that these thoughts and actions exist, and it tasks us to do more. Feel more. Think about others for a change and that brings forth a powerful feature. One that does indeed make us laugh, and cry and it will stay with you for a LONG time. Courtesy of a stunning story, filled with amazing performances, that informs us that the best way to let go of our fears of losing someone to something so dark… is by embracing that person and showing them the value they add to the world.

Something that is genuinely fascinating about popular culture, is how friendships are portrayed in television and film. For they are often showcased in one of two ways. They are either healthy and mature or outright messy and it makes sense as to why these polarizing traits are put on display. For one is designed to remind us of the importance of healthy friendships and what they can do for us in our time of need. While the other usually exists to provide us with a hard lesson about how not all friendships last and we need boundaries and maturity to be injected into them… or we need to jettison that relationship from our lives.
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But what truly makes this so fascinating, is how wrong both of those portrayals are. Because friendships are in fact… both things at the same. For real friends, will be that mature guiding light when we need to hear some hard truths and some hard facts about our journey. But real friends will also confide in us some messed up thoughts and get messy in the dirt with us when the going gets tough. Because real friendship is messy, and real friendship withstands all challenges and that needs to be showcased more in television and film, and thankfully, director Victoria Negri, felt the need to do just that by way of a short feature she crafted, which recently screened at the Austin Film Festival, in Mermaid, Bitch.

Which is a story that introduces us to Lily, who is going through quite the unique period in her life when we meet her, here. Mainly because she’s awakened from a night on the town, transformed. Not in the metaphysical sense mind you, but courtesy of the fact that the lower half of her body has been replaced with a mermaid’s tail. Which of course, puts her into a panic, one that prompts her to call her closest friend Ruby to her apartment, to help her deal with the fact that she is now a mythical creature. A reality that will bring forth a long day for these besties, one that will challenge their flawed friendship like never before but also help them to understand… the wonder of their bond and how little will ever be able to break it.

Which gives rise, to an amazing feature. One that let’s be honest, is about as original and unique as it gets. Because there are just no stories out there that this writer can think of, where someone just wakes up one day transformed in this manner. Which in turn, allows for some real comedy to take place in this feature. Since it also makes the point of showcasing how wild such a transformation would be and the struggles it would bring about in everyday life. Since we don’t give much thought to how we would navigate stairs or simple travel without the use of our legs. But of course, there is more to this story than the fantastical, for as mentioned… it does dive deep into some amazing concepts regarding friendship.
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In fact, this film showcases a supremely realistic friendship. Wherein that brutal honesty is present, since Ruby has a lot to say about the situation, but also shows us that messy side of friendships we don’t like to talk about. Wherein we sometimes fight with our closest friends and where we struggle to find common ground when the situation is polarizing, and where things can get ugly and stressful between us and our BFFL. But we never worry about them not being at our side, because messy is where the best friendships thrive, and it helps us to find a way forward with them, and well, this story deserves a round of applause for showing us a realistic friendship, in all its sometimes-co-dependent glory and for making it clear that they have to harbor good and bad to be productive.

All of which brings together, a wonderfully refreshing story. One that really is special and creative and features some lovely performances from co-writer Alexi Pappas (Lily) and Ruby McCollister (Ruby), that sell the wild nature of this story, and the magnificent wonder of friendships. Because truly, it’s majesty is on display here, and all of this works, courtesy of co-writer/director Victoria Negri. Who found a way to make all of this believable, since the mermaid half of Lily can stand in for just about any struggle friends encounter and well, that makes this a delightful film. One that is really is filled with depth and lighthearted moments that work, and finally puts what friendships really look like on display in a medium that rarely gives them their due.