There comes a point in our lives, where quite the epiphany washes over us. In that, we only have so many years in this life, and because of that… we should do everything we can to make great memories before we can no longer do so. For old age does indeed rob us of mobility and sometimes, our memories and that’s why we act quickly after that lesson. To get those memories and enjoy life before our bodies no longer allow us to, and what’s fascinating about this epiphany, is that it tends to arrive later in life rather than sooner. Usually after a health scare, brush with the end or through the power of loss and grief. Because then our morality is right in front of us. 
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However, for some, this epiphany comes forth at a far younger age, and for vastly different reasons. Because the universe is a strange and sometimes unjust place that puts people in situations, they aren’t ready to face, even when their whole lives are ahead of them. Which begs a big question, how does one respond to such matters, at a young age? For that is so much to process, and young minds aren’t always ready to think about death, or loss, or the possibility of having their lives change in a drastic manner through means that aren’t easy to digest. If anything, this scenario and that question are top of mind today, because they are what one family faces in the new National Geographic documentary, Blink.

For this particular feature introduces us to the Pelletier family, who seem like an everyday family that is not facing strife when we first meet them. But there is a hidden surprise that has put this family at a crossroads. In that, three of the four children of this family have a disease that will rob them of their sight as they grow older. Which leaves their parents shocked and unsure of what to do at first. That is until they settle upon a unique course of action. In that, they choose to pull the kids out of regular school and sink every dollar they have, into traveling around the world and completing a bucket list, so that these children can experience life and store memories of its beauty before they can no longer enjoy it with their eyes, and that makes… for a unique and moving story.

One that first and foremost, addresses those questions and that concern immediately. Because we’re talking about grade school children here who in a short time, won’t be able to see the faces of their loved ones or ponder upon the majesty of a sunrise or sunset, and that’s a lot for a parent to process. Heck, it’s a lot for the viewer to process. Because we can barely ponder or perceive the possibility of losing our senses at any age, so for a kid to face that… is daunting and devastating and well, much like the epiphany we reach later in life, there’s strength to be found in what this family decides. Because it’s a big deal that they choose to give these kids a chance at making memories quickly, to cherish them always, and the journey offers up some real inspiration for the audience.
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Because we of course, follow them on their global journey, and while we are privy to beautiful locations and moments that are special and unique… we do gather some powerful lessons from this family’s incredible adventure. In that, their journey reminds us that life really is too short, and anything can happen to us at any time. So, we should not wait to live life to the fullest and soak up incredible experiences every chance we get. Granted, yes, that is always easier said and done, but it is a lesson to take to heart and apply in other ways on a smaller scale. But if the means are there, and the window is available, we should take it… because what harm can come from living life to the fullest and being part of the world that we dream of exploring?

All of which makes for a powerful and dynamic documentary. One that is also supremely moving in nature since we are indeed privy to so many emotional moments with this family. For we are there as they experience joy, sorrow, and just the emotional difficulties that accompany traveling the globe, and this documentary deserves a round of applause for presenting that in an honest manner and for giving us a story… that is brave and bold. Because it takes guts from parents to openly admit the struggles their children are facing, much less let an audience/camera crew document a push to give them a lasting gift before a disease robs them of so much. But we get that honesty here, and we are indeed left transformed when this story is over, since we are reminded, that the moment is all that matters, and we should grab hold of it tightly.

Often times, stories that feature individuals that have had some kind of run in with the law and are currently trying to put their lives back together, are supremely positive in nature, and understandably so. After all, that individual has done their time, and clearly are reformed enough to be granted a release. So, it stands to reason that a story focused upon a person like that, would showcase a desire to return to society and enjoy a second chance, and likely settle some old scores the right way. To find peace, to show the system works. But let’s be honest… that really is the best-case scenario when you think about it, and true escapism from a storytelling standpoint. Simply because, those stories aren’t the constant in our world, and if they were, crime would be relatively nonexistent. Because that would mean the system does work and people do learn and grow from their mistakes.
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But the truth is, it doesn’t, and people head in and out of prison in a revolving door style. Sometimes because the system is indeed against them or because they simply didn’t learn a damn thing, and did enough in prison, to get the hell out of prison. Only for them to slip back into old haunts, and it’s devastating to know that some people don’t learn from their mistakes and fall into cycles and traps and do more harm on their way back to jail. So, in many ways, it makes sense why we try to find the positive in such matters, but in reality, we should not. We should showcase a grittier side to the system, and what people really do when they get out of jail. So that at last, we can no longer ignore the broken nature of the system and how it creates lifetime criminals and how the right lessons aren’t being learned within its walls, and it just so happens that a short feature that debuted at the Austin Film Festival, takes the time to do just that. 

Which is a feat that Vial accomplishes, by introducing us to a man named Ken. Who is a recovering addict that has finally escaped the clutches of prison for drug related charges and at first glance, appears to be following the standard story we are used to. Since he’s out in the world, in awe of the changes that have come forth while he was away, and he is even working hard to make sure his son has what he needs and wants in this life. But alas, there is a slight problem when it comes to Ken’s second chance. In that, he still struggles with addiction, and he’s on the hook for standard testing with his probation officer… and in his system are traces of his last use. Which means, that unless he wants to go back to prison, he is going to have to go to extremes to maintain life on the outside, and in order to do that… he needs clean urine and a delivery method for it. A sobering reality that puts Ken in a tough place, wherein the choices he makes… will change his life forever.

Which does indeed bring forth, a powerful tale for certain. One that truly does showcase how the system as it stands, does not work. Because clearly, Ken didn’t learn a damn thing while he was in prison and the system didn’t do him any favors in getting clean. Since he is still an addict when we meet him, and that reality brings forth an intense journey for certain. Wherein we watch a desperate man do desperate things to maintain that freedom and maintain the life he so badly wants. In the most heartbreaking manner possible, no less. That gives rise to tragic moments, really, the kind that shock you and stay with you, and truly showcase… how things really are for former inmates in our world, and how we the people… need to demand better of the system. So, that the tragedy that is Ken’s journey here, never comes to fruition again.
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Yet, while the feature’s commentary on the system is spot-on and engaging, there is still so much that that this film has to offer. For it also provides us, with a fascinating look at the power of substance abuse and the strength it exerts over people. Because we really do see Ken struggle with living within two worlds. For part of him is desperate to be near his son, so he can raise him right and see him grow. Yet at the same time, he’s all about that fix, and the sheer thought of someone buying gear and cultivating urine to pass a drug test… is wild… but it’s very real. Because there are indeed people who struggle with addiction, that lead two lives and do their best to hide the truth from their loved ones because of the power it exerts over them and the peace it brings them, and this feature deserves a round of applause for showcasing such uncomfortable truths about addiction.

If anything, all of these elements bring forth just a stunning feature. One that really reflects a slice of life that we don’t think about or talk about enough. But we should pay attention, and we should start discussing such truths. Because that’s the only way change will come forth, and all of this is expressed over the course of fourteen minutes. Which is no small feat, but director Alexandre Davis, working with a script that they have co-written with Robert Capron and David Holmes, brings about a tour de force story. One that is well-acted as well thanks to Joel Austin’s revelatory turn as Ken, and truly… this is an important piece of cinema. One that has a lot to say about the state of the system, and how badly it is failing people that are in need of support.

What is genuinely fascinating about historical moments, the ones that people will study for generations on end, is that… no one has a clue that those moments are historical in the slightest when they happen. For when it comes to the persons going through them, it’s just another day. One that started out like any other, with breakfast, a shower, and everyday thoughts. But just like that… something happened. Something we reflect upon now and they had no clue this was how the day was going to go, and it is just wild to know that history is made in such a simple manner. That decisions brewing far away from our own can give rise to lead to moments that we reflect upon forever and what’s equally as fascinating, is how we pay little mind to how those moments influence the future.
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Take for instance, how we digest and receive news. Because if something big happens in the news, we know about it, quick. For the networks with bust into our daily viewings with a BREAKING NEWS segment that informs us what is going on, and the news channels will ponder upon what happened and offer any updates, constantly. All thanks to the twenty-four-hour news cycle. Not to mention, through social media we can dig into live updates and just be in the moment. But it wasn’t always like that. The news used to be reported a few times a day and that was that. We would head off to bed and see what the morning broadcast or newspapers had to offer. But that all changed in September of 1972, courtesy of a historical moment that simply came out of the blue in the most nonsensical of places, and it just so happens that brand-new film from Paramount Pictures ponders upon that moment, in September 5.

Which is a story that plunges us into the heart of Munich, Germany in the early hours of September 5, 1972, in the midst of the 1972 Summer Olympics, and in this time period we are introduced to the Sports team from ABC. Who are doing some extraordinary stuff during the games. Since they are able to get a live feed of the Munich games out to the world, a first, made possible through new satellite technology and well… what seems like just another day for the rotation crew, turns out to be anything but. For in the early hours of this fateful day, shots are fired in the Olympic Village and just like that… this intrepid crew of sports reporters find themselves in the midst of a historic event. For soon they learn that the terrorist organization, Black September, has taken the Israeli athletes’ hostage in an effort to gain political swing, and it is up to this team to tell the story live. A move that will forever change how we consume news, courtesy of a powerful moment in history.  

Which is… the perfect way to explore the nature of how history is made and how one day can change so much. Because this story makes sure to showcase, how this was a day like any other. That everyone involved in the ABC Sports Newsroom had no clue that history was on the horizon and that their actions would offer influence for decades upon decades to come. They just did their job, and in doing so… created the modern news cycle. Since the work of these individuals showcased how real-time news could inform us like never before and impact us like never before. Not to mention, it showcased how there was a real appetite for live news, and that the demand the people put forth after this fateful day, would bring about the news cycle as we see it now, so we could be in the know and feel a real sense of knowledge and power from being up to date on world happenings.
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But while that does make for some fascinating lessons regarding history and our world and how it all comes together, this is also… a critical re-telling of a devastating day in history, and that allows for the film to tell a very human story. About a group of reporters and producers that really didn’t know what was happening and had to react to the horrors of a hostage situation in real time. Which adds a stunning sense of realism to this story. As though we have been transported back in time to 1972, wherein we can live out how the day unfolded with this crew and that makes… for a compelling viewing experience. One that is intense, and riveting, and truly draws you into the moment, and it even educates along the way. Since not everyone knows all the details of what happened on this dark day, and that is important… since it keeps the memory of those lost during this tragedy, alive.

All of which gives rise… to an incredible motion picture. One that does indeed offer up a unique perspective on history, how it’s made and how singular moments and decisions can have a lasting impact for decades on end. Along with a powerful history lesson that truly reminds us of how quickly the world can change and the darkness we are capable of, and all of these elements, and the fine performances present from the cast… make this a must-see feature. Simply because it is important, pertinent, and downright poignant. Since in a way it helps us to process the waves of history happening now, courtesy of a powerful story that reminds us of the lives lost on this tragic day, and how their deaths, changed the world in ways we never thought possible. 

It really is quite amazing, what the marketplace for documentaries looks like right now. Because they are popular and they are everywhere, and right now… there are so many that at last, some critical stories are being told about big moments in our world and important things happening in it right now. Which is giving rise to stories that have never been told before… but need to be, and for proof… look no further than a documentary that recently debuted on Comcast.

For they just premiered Out Blues Make Us Gold. A powerful documentary that chronicles North Carolina Agriculture and Technical State University, which just so happens to be the country’s largest historically black university. And this particular tale explores the school and its students’ contributions to STEM education and agriculture and well, this is indeed an important story to tell. One that celebrates education and offers representation and inspiration and well, since this is a critical story to spotlight, here are all the details on this release and a trailer for it, courtesy of Comcast.   

‘Comcast today announced the exclusive premiere of Our Blues Make Us Gold, a feature-length documentary that examines the history and global impact of North Carolina Agriculture and Technical State University, the country’s largest historically Black university, from filmmakers Brandon Gerard and Ashley Shante. The documentary is available for free as part of Comcast’s Black Experience on Xfinity and Xumo Play. 
 
Launched in 2021, Comcast’s Black Experience is a comprehensive content destination that features the ultimate in Black storytelling from diverse programming partners and film studios and has released a variety of original documentaries to showcase diverse talent and content creators. Black Experience is available across Xfinity’s entertainment devices, including X1, Flex and Xumo Stream Box, as well as on Xumo Play, a free ad-supported streaming TV (FAST) app available on major streaming platforms.
 
Our Blues Make Us Gold explores the legacy and future of North Carolina A&T and captures the university’s unique position as both a powerhouse in STEM education and a historically agricultural institution, sharing the voices and viewpoints of alumni and students who bring its story to life. 
 
“We are honored to collaborate with filmmakers Ashley and Brandon to bring this remarkable documentary to the Black Experience on Xfinity and Xumo Play,” said Loren Hudson, SVP & Chief Diversity Officer, Connectivity and Platforms, Comcast.
Behind the lens are Ashley and Brandon, a husband-and-wife duo with over 20 years of professional experience in film production. Through their production company, From A2B Entertainment, they deliver stories that blend emotional depth with a fresh, contemporary style. 
     
"A few years ago, I was in the writers room pitching for a new character to be an HBCU graduate,” shared Ashley. “The painfully loud silence of my colleagues was eventually followed by really insulting questions. I left the room feeling angry that day. That anger fueled the conversation I had with Brandon, which resulted in our big idea, to show the greatness and impact of a real life HBCU and bring it to a mainstream audience. We were told many times this couldn't be done. We refused to accept that."
     
“We wanted this film to feel like stories by the campfire with ancestors, mixed with the urgency of a call to action to protect sacred and necessary institutions like North Carolina A&T,” said Brandon. “We are thankful to Comcast, Xfinity and Xumo for partnering with us to amplify the stories of our community’s real-life superheroes.”
 
Xfinity customers can find the Black Experience on X1, Flex or Xumo Stream Box by saying “Black Experience” into their voice remote. X1 customers can also enjoy a curated channel of some of the best and most popular programming Black Experience has to offer on channel 1622 within the programming guide. Additionally, the Black Experience destination and channel are both available on Xumo Play, bringing programming like Our Blues Make Us Gold to customers across the country.
 
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We are living in quite the unique time from a generational standpoint. Because it can be safely said that for the first time ever in modern society, that there has never been such the divide between the various generations. For the generation that came before, really does have a different view of the world and it’s worth to them and others. To the point where they so desperately want old traditions to continue, and they want to hold tight to items that they worked so hard to obtain, and pass them down as was done for them, and their fight to keep all that alive exists… because of the next generation and their particular views on the world.
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For they don’t believe quite as much in the value of material items and are eager to shed them if they don’t serve a sustainable purpose anymore. And of course, they are eager to change old traditions that they feel no longer serve the public in a beneficial manner, and well… that conflict continues to grow, and it does leave one to wonder… can we find common ground? Wherein the last generation isn’t so desperate to hang onto what once was and where the new generation can honor what came before them in a manner that doesn’t keep toxicity alive? Well, it just so happens that a beautiful short feature that screened at the Austin Film Festival answers those questions in A Better Place.

A feat this film accomplishes by introducing us to a young man named Henry. Who lives in the city and has made quite the life for himself working with a real estate development company, and when we meet him, here, he’s come home to his family’s farm for the weekend. In part to check in on his parents, but also… to provide them with quite the offer. For his firm wants the land and they are ready to pay to have that land. But alas, Tzu-Yi and Lisa, his father and mother, respectively, have little interest in selling. For they want their legacy in this place to stand, and they want what they built to be handed off and kept up in the noblest manner possible. Which brings forth, a tense weekend where two generations will ponder upon the power of progress, and the importance of nostalgia.

All of which brings forth, a magnificent feature that properly explores the divide in question. Since we do see Tzu-Yi and Lisa, fight hard to maintain what they earned, what they believe is their sole gift to their son to make sure they are forever honored. Whereas Henry makes it clear that time marches on and that this is a chance to give them real comfort and real joy since the money will do so much and they can make new memories in a new home, and honor the past in comfort  Which brings forth a powerful bit of conflict where neither side wants to listen to the other, and that… is our source problem. In that, two generations want their way and aren’t willing to compromise or speak to one another on the matter.

Of course, this film does take the time to build upon that and showcase that despite our differences, yes, we can find common ground. Provided that we first take that all-important time to listen to one another’s concerns about what’s happening in life and what we want out of it… and find compromise. Such as say, learning how to honor what is actually important and meaningful for the last generation. So, they feel their efforts are not in vain and that a legacy exists for them. As for the next generation, it’s all about being open to change and hearing new perspectives and coming to understand there are other paths forward than the old ways, and when both sides can have that, a better place can be found.

If anything, all of these elements bring forth, a powerful and beautiful feature. One that is so incredibly timely. For this is the divide we face in 2024, and this is a divide that is seemingly endless. But this does give us a way forward, one that we should enact in our lives as soon as possible. Because our own parents have an idea of what they want to leave behind, and we all have a path we want to forge ahead, and that message comes courtesy of a film that truly examines this in an organic and realistic manner. One complete with compelling performances and nuanced moments that speak to how there is common ground to be found, if we take a moment to listen to one another for a change, and really hear what the other side has to say.

Caution: This article contains discussions regarding suicide and suicidal ideation, which may be triggering to some individuals.
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Despite the fact that we live in an era where science and society is finally turning its attention to mental health and our need to maintain it with the same urgency and care as our physical health, there are some topics on the matter that are still seen as taboo in nature. Such as suicide and suicidal ideation, and well… it does make sense as to why we shy away from discussing such matters. After all, the thought of someone wanting to end their life is unnatural to us. Because we are taught to cherish life and do what must be done to preserve it, especially our own. Not to mention, there’s so much beauty in this world, it makes no sense as to why someone would decide this. 

Plus, it’s just scary. Scary to think that someone would be ready and willing to think about their own death, much less carry it out, and that fear makes it all impossible to comprehend. But the fact of the matter is, there are people in this world that really feel as though that solution is their only hope, and we have to stop holding to stigmas and fears about such matters and address the reality that people feel this way and want to make this decision. So that we can properly understand what leads to this and work to prevent it through real help to those in need and well, it just so happens… that a motion picture that recently screened at the Austin Film Festival… works to offer understanding on such a concern, and that makes I Hate Myself and Want to Die an important feature. 

One that takes the time to introduce us to a man named Jacob who has made quite the decision when we meet him, here. In that, he’s ready to die. He’s had enough of life, of his failures and now seems like the right time to just leave what little he has to his close friend, Russell, and just fade from this life. But his attempt to end his life, does not go according to plan. Not to mention, before he can make another attempt, his mother and others come calling and are in need of his help. Which frustrates Jacob to no end but does not stop him from stepping in and giving others a few more minutes with him. Because despite being derailed, he still has a plan to exit this life, the only question is whether or not he can keep his plans a secret. Since deep down he knows doubt will creep in if someone takes him to task over his dark decision.

Which is a plot that perfectly explores the nature of suicidal ideation. Since we are plunged into the middle of Jacob’s struggles and that does help us to come to understand what motivates people to want to end their lives. Granted, this isn’t the be all understanding, but we are able to understand that great failures and rejection and a lack of self and external worth… can devastate a person’s psyche and put them in Jacob’s shoes. Where they feel there’s no point in going on and that’s powerful to say the least. Since that’s more exploration and discovery than most stories put forth regarding this matter, and it is presented to us in a frank manner, so that we see these kinds of struggles in an objective light. Which helps to remove stigma and taboo, and above all, helps us to recognize symptoms and how we can help.
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What that looks like, we will get to in a moment, because we need to further deconstruct how the story makes these lessons so incredibly impactful. In that, the movie also makes use of humor to properly explore such matters and that’s huge. Because humor disarms a mind and removes worry and discomfort. Which allows for the information we receive to stick, and it allows for some entertainment to come into play so that the story never overwhelms and never makes one uncomfortable. That is of course, no small feat. Since this remains a tough topic, and in many ways, the comedy here should serve as a blueprint as to how other stories down the line can better examine this topic and get their point across regarding it. 

But for the sake of this story, such approaches make it clear… these struggles are very real, and that when someone is down and hurting badly… we should not just leave them to their own devices and hope they’re okay when they’re hurting so badly. We should step in, check on them, remind them that we cherish them. Because that can make a world of difference. Will it solve the problem? And save everyone? Likely not, but it is more than we are doing now, and we need to start somewhere to stimulate change, and that is why this movie is so important. Because it acknowledges the problem, it acknowledges that these thoughts and actions exist, and it tasks us to do more. Feel more. Think about others for a change and that brings forth a powerful feature. One that does indeed make us laugh, and cry and it will stay with you for a LONG time. Courtesy of a stunning story, filled with amazing performances, that informs us that the best way to let go of our fears of losing someone to something so dark… is by embracing that person and showing them the value they add to the world.

Something that is genuinely fascinating about popular culture, is how friendships are portrayed in television and film. For they are often showcased in one of two ways. They are either healthy and mature or outright messy and it makes sense as to why these polarizing traits are put on display. For one is designed to remind us of the importance of healthy friendships and what they can do for us in our time of need. While the other usually exists to provide us with a hard lesson about how not all friendships last and we need boundaries and maturity to be injected into them… or we need to jettison that relationship from our lives.
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But what truly makes this so fascinating, is how wrong both of those portrayals are. Because friendships are in fact… both things at the same. For real friends, will be that mature guiding light when we need to hear some hard truths and some hard facts about our journey. But real friends will also confide in us some messed up thoughts and get messy in the dirt with us when the going gets tough. Because real friendship is messy, and real friendship withstands all challenges and that needs to be showcased more in television and film, and thankfully, director Victoria Negri, felt the need to do just that by way of a short feature she crafted, which recently screened at the Austin Film Festival, in Mermaid, Bitch.

Which is a story that introduces us to Lily, who is going through quite the unique period in her life when we meet her, here. Mainly because she’s awakened from a night on the town, transformed. Not in the metaphysical sense mind you, but courtesy of the fact that the lower half of her body has been replaced with a mermaid’s tail. Which of course, puts her into a panic, one that prompts her to call her closest friend Ruby to her apartment, to help her deal with the fact that she is now a mythical creature. A reality that will bring forth a long day for these besties, one that will challenge their flawed friendship like never before but also help them to understand… the wonder of their bond and how little will ever be able to break it.

Which gives rise, to an amazing feature. One that let’s be honest, is about as original and unique as it gets. Because there are just no stories out there that this writer can think of, where someone just wakes up one day transformed in this manner. Which in turn, allows for some real comedy to take place in this feature. Since it also makes the point of showcasing how wild such a transformation would be and the struggles it would bring about in everyday life. Since we don’t give much thought to how we would navigate stairs or simple travel without the use of our legs. But of course, there is more to this story than the fantastical, for as mentioned… it does dive deep into some amazing concepts regarding friendship.
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In fact, this film showcases a supremely realistic friendship. Wherein that brutal honesty is present, since Ruby has a lot to say about the situation, but also shows us that messy side of friendships we don’t like to talk about. Wherein we sometimes fight with our closest friends and where we struggle to find common ground when the situation is polarizing, and where things can get ugly and stressful between us and our BFFL. But we never worry about them not being at our side, because messy is where the best friendships thrive, and it helps us to find a way forward with them, and well, this story deserves a round of applause for showing us a realistic friendship, in all its sometimes-co-dependent glory and for making it clear that they have to harbor good and bad to be productive.

All of which brings together, a wonderfully refreshing story. One that really is special and creative and features some lovely performances from co-writer Alexi Pappas (Lily) and Ruby McCollister (Ruby), that sell the wild nature of this story, and the magnificent wonder of friendships. Because truly, it’s majesty is on display here, and all of this works, courtesy of co-writer/director Victoria Negri. Who found a way to make all of this believable, since the mermaid half of Lily can stand in for just about any struggle friends encounter and well, that makes this a delightful film. One that is really is filled with depth and lighthearted moments that work, and finally puts what friendships really look like on display in a medium that rarely gives them their due.

If there is one particular question that we often ask ourselves in this life, it would have to be… what does one have to do to feel happy and fulfilled? Because deep down we all know that waking up in the morning with a sense of glee and a sense of purpose, goes a long way. It makes us productive; it aids our mental and physical health and above all, it signals that we’ve done something wondrous with our life. Something that truly makes us feel as though we are leaving our mark and doing something special. But we also ask ourselves that question, because… well… we aren’t there quite yet, and we aren’t exactly in the best place when we do ponder upon it.
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Because there is a fight to get to that point. One that involves setbacks and failures and moments that seemingly keep us down, and sometimes we ponder upon that question because our physical and mental health are in the tank, and we want that to end. We want to feel better. But alas, that’s where we are in that moment, rudderless and worried about finding peace and well, what does go into finding what we want when we are in a place where we aren’t happy or fulfilled? What specific steps start moving us toward that better tomorrow and better place? Well as it turns out, there are far simpler steps than we know to make that happen, and they are explored in a magnificent motion picture that recently screened at the Austin Film Festival in Lady Parts.

All of which, this story accomplishes, by introducing us to a writer named Paige who is at a crossroads in her life. In part because, her career is moving at a snail’s pace, and she knows that if given the chance she could do some amazing things as a writer in Hollywood. But also, because she just doesn’t feel well mentally or physically. For she’s dealt with one failed relationship after another, and intimacy in her relationships is a chore and painful to boot. Which leaves her wondering, what could be done to feel better, and a consult with a doctor… offers her one potential solution. In that, a potential surgery to clear up what’s causing the physical pain in her vagina, could be the start of a new chapter. Provided of course, she can stomach leaving her dreams behind at a critical moment to move back in with her parents to heal and reset.

Which is… the perfect way to answer those all-important questions. Because Paige goes on a powerful healing journey in this story. One where she solves a physical problem and in being forced to rest and reflect, she begins to work on healing herself as well. Which allows for her to refocus her passion, think upon what she wants out of life and well, that leads to those critical answers we seek. In that, we won’t find peace and fulfillment by way of our career path or through coping through pain. We find it… by taking care of ourselves. By healing physically and mentally and by learning to love the person we see in the mirror every single day. For when we do that, we find peace, we find we are okay with who we are and then we can go out and achieve wonders, and that’s a wonderful answer/message to find in this film.
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One that believe it or not, offers so much more than just an uplifting message about self-love and healing. For this is also, a bold feature. In large part, because this story takes the time to address women’s sexuality and desire, and how we (men) often in this life, put a ton of pressure upon women to be objects of desire and be receptive to all things sexual. Regardless of what they are feeling or what they need emotionally and physically, and that’s definitely bold and new to see in film since sexuality from a women’s perspective is so taboo, as is the other important aspect of this film. In that, it also speaks to women’s health on a level that few stories ever have, and that’s huge. Because there should be no mystique around women’s health because everyone’s health is important and struggles with it are natural, and it is refreshing to see this story point that out in a frank manner. 

All of which brings forth, a brilliant feature. One that is deeply relatable, since we will or have asked the very question that Paige does here, and we will go on our own journey to find that personal peace and fulfillment. Not to mention, it is so wonderful that this film takes the time to showcase women’s health and their sexuality in a frank and direct manner that shatters stigma, and it even ponders upon the complexities of family. All of which comes courtesy of writer Bonnie Gross’ lovely script, and Nancy Boyd’s wonderful direction. Plus, it doesn’t hurt that this movie features nuanced and layered performances from its cast, with Valentina Tammaro leading the charge as Paige, and her performance, and the work of the supporting cast just adds to the richness of a beautiful story. One that reminds us that happiness starts from within, and the sooner we heal ourselves, the faster we get to where we want to be.

There is a prevailing belief in our world, that the holiday season truly is quite the magical time. One where no harm can come to people because the season is about unity and giving, and looking toward a better tomorrow, and there is merit to this. Since we do find joy during the season, and we do find wonder and somehow… everything is just brighter alongside family and friends. And of course, those good vibes extend beyond our own observations, since others seem to share in it and popular media even gets in on the fun. Since so many holiday films showcase wondrous times during the holidays and if there is a problem to be solved in those stories, its minor and conquerable through love and hope.

But while there is merit to that line of thinking, and joy to find in those tales, deep down we know the holiday and those stories offer true escapism. Since life doesn’t end when the holidays begin, and tough times fall upon people during the season. As do massive challenges that can tax a person’s joy and potentially remove it. Which means that it would likely be more helpful to enjoy holiday stories that showcase that, to help us find a more realistic brighter path during the holidays, and we should also think less of the magic and more of how we can properly spread cheer and well, different perspective is top of mind today, simply because a Hallmark Channel holiday movie sequel offers up just that in Three Wise Men and a Boy.

Which is indeed the follow-up to Three Wise Men and a Baby, and reunites us with the Brenner men no problem, some years after that all-important adoption took place and well, they are in unique places this time around. For Luke is struggling with playing single dad for a moment during the holiday season, while Taylor is hitting hard times as his attempts to get a video game company off the ground continue to falter, and Stephan is struggling to balance work and life, and they’re all dealing with this during the holidays and while their mother is shaking up their lives with a new relationship. All of which strains them to no end and to complicate life further, they’re trying to salvage the school play they… basically nearly ruined with a touch of overzealousness. 

All of which provides us with a fascinating, realistic look at the holiday season. Because that is it to a tee. For not everyone is feeling holiday cheer and enjoying prosperity during the season. They’re struggling like anyone else. And some folks are stuck working heavily while trying their best to juggle the season and their job and all the chaos life sends our way. Which makes for a refreshing feature for certain. One that really does feel as though we’re in the midst of it with the Brenners and truly, we can relate to just about everything they go through here. Since we’ve had our tough seasons where we don’t know where the New Year will take us, and we’ve also pulled our hair out plenty when the stress just piles up.
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But of course, with this being a Hallmark Holiday Feature, the film doesn’t just focus on grit and realism. It is eager to show us as well, how we get through those tough times and how the season does help with that. Which is why we see the family come together as needed, and hold one another up when they’re struggling, and that’s the real magic of the season. Believing in one another, and propping one another up when the going gets tough, and that’s what we need to focus upon when it comes to the season. What we can do for one another and how best we can be there for folks who might be going through it. For that is how you make change in the world and if by chance we can extend that line of thinking beyond the holidays, imagine what we could accomplish.

All of which brings forth, another charming Hallmark Holiday Feature. One that is a delightful sequel as well. Since it is just wonderful to reunite with the Brenner boys and see how they’ve come along since we first met them a couple of years ago. Plus, it means we get more charming performances from this cast and once again, this movie shows that Hallmark is trying some new things with its Holiday Features. Since we don’t always see sequels to them, and we tend to not see such realistic messaging. But they are trying to do more and expand and take these stories in a new direction and they succeed here thanks to this charming tale that offers up a different look at the reason for the season, and the other gifts we can give people during it.

It is definitely safe to say that first responders are presented in popular media in a supremely unique light. For a fair number of shows and a fair number of movies, show them as grizzled and bold heroes. Who are fearless in nature and will stop at nothing to bust criminals or fight fires or save lives in a hospital and well, it makes sense as to why this is the case. Because they are heroes, and they are people that make a powerful choice to stand before trouble and help others, so it stands to reason that we see them as individuals that are fearless and hungry for justice. But while that is lovely to see on screen, constantly seeing first responders in that light can be problematic in nature.
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Because it means we put them on a pedestal, and we translate that view of them to real life and that can put undue pressure upon them and can put them in a tough spot when someone is disappointed with them for not being able to catch the bad guy or prevent something bad from happening. As though they’ve failed us when they have not. For they are in fact, human beings, who are fallible and have limitations like anyone else in this life and the sooner we see that, the more we can respect their chosen career field in a far more powerful manner. Since they are willing to deal with failures and mistakes that we cannot, and thankfully, we are starting to see a shift in how these individuals are perceived. Courtesy of shows and films that are starting to showcase the human side of the equation, such as the recent release on the Hallmark Channel, Christmas on Call.

Which is a story that introduces us to a bevy of first responders during the holiday season in Philadelphia. In fact, we meet first responders from all the major agencies, with a focus on two particular characters, Wes and Hannah, who work as an EMT and Emergency Room Doctor, respectively, and well, Hannah is new in town and looking for a guide and Wes is happy to help since they have chemistry. But alas, there is no quick love affair that takes shape here, instead… we spend a lot of time seeing how Hannah and Wes struggle to make time for one another because of how busy they are since their day jobs demand much of them. Which leads to a story… that is supremely realistic in nature and unlike anything else that Hallmark has ever done.

Because the romance is merely the secondary focus, and we truly spend a great deal of time just seeing how first responders live and the surprises they run into in their day to day lives and how they navigate the ups and downs of it. Making this less a traditional Hallmark holiday movie and more a slice of life tale. One that truly showcases the various first responder jobs out there in a surprisingly human way. Since we see doubt creep in for some, and worry that they can make miracles happen, and in between when they are not caring for others, they are trying to care for themselves and navigate life and their careers and their dreams… and that’s just lovely to see play out. 
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For in many ways, it just makes this feature a tribute story to the people that risk so much for one another and this is definitely a welcome change of pace film, one that doesn’t lose sight though, of what we love about Hallmark Holiday Movies. Because there is romance to be found here, and we do enjoy seeing that play out in these stories, and in between the heavier stuff, there are some beautiful moments of unity to be found. The kind where we see people that care about others, go the extra mile for the co-workers they love and adore and want to see succeed. Which all hammers home the ‘peace on earth’ and unity concepts that permeate the season and it all works here and gives life to an outright refreshing holiday feature. 

Since it is just nice to learn/be reminded of the fact that our first responders do sacrifice a lot to keep others safe and breathing, and that they go through some tough times in doing so, and we really do need more of that on television and in popular media period. So that we do hold them in a different light, one that is less about expectation and involves far more empathy. For people who have made a stunning choice and carry quite the burden, and Hallmark deserves a round of applause for giving this story life. Because this is a brave choice for the network, one that pays off in spades since we are treated to something new and something original, that also informs us… that this network is about to enter a bold new chapter in its storytelling. One filled to the brim with bold new ideas that add new depth to the holiday season.