‘Extended Family’ Recap: ‘The Consequences of Writing Things Down’

3/13/2024

Written by John Edward Betancourt

EXTENDED FAMILY -- "The Consequences of Writing Things Down" Episode 111 -- Pictured: (l-r) Jon Cryer as Jim, Andrea Anders as Kristin -- (Photo by: Ron Batzdorff/NBC)

Caution: This article contains spoilers for Episode 111 of ‘Extended Family’. To revisit the previous episode, click here.

It is definitely safe to say, that the hit NBC series, Extended Family, is quite the revolutionary sitcom. Simply because, this is a sitcom that does more than just make people laugh heartily. It’s a show that accurately reflects family life in America right now, and the struggles that blended families go through. Which in turn is allowing for guidance and lessons to come forth for viewers that might be in need of a little nudge in the right direction, and that’s unprecedented for certain as is the other amazing element from this series. In that, this is also a sitcom that makes use of serialized storytelling.

Which granted, isn’t new to the sitcom universe, but it is extremely rare. Since so many sitcoms focus upon new laughs and new scenarios for the characters to take part in week in and week out. But this series, takes the time to return to concepts explored, often, and expand upon them in a manner that is compelling and organic, and after twice pondering upon what it means to have our children look at us in a positive light, the series decided to return to another concept introduced earlier this season. Specifically, what the world of dating in middle age looks like after one has gone through a divorce, and how can successfully find a partner when diving into post-divorce dating. Which ‘The Consequences of Writing Things Down’ accomplished by putting Jim in quite the unique situation
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In that, he managed to flirt successfully with a woman named Kristin in the supermarket. To the point where he had her laughing and where he of course, went with the flow of the conversation. Because he and Kristin were indeed genuinely vibing and found one another attractive, and that allowed for him to successfully arrange a yoga date with Kristin. But there was just one problem with that. In that, Jim really wasn’t up front and honest about his lack of yoga skills or how the yoga pants he was wearing when they met were put on for comfort over expression. But of course, Jim rolled with it to have that date and of course, took a physical beating over it and learned some valuable lessons in the process.

EXTENDED FAMILY -- "The Consequences of Writing Things Down" Episode 111 -- Pictured: (l-r) Andrea Anders as Kristin, Donald Faison as Trey, Jon Cryer as Jim -- (Photo by: Ron Batzdorff/NBC)

Specifically, that dating in middle age and after divorce is hard. Super hard in fact, because of the strange mantra that surrounds those who have left a relationship and have children. But one cannot hide behind white lies and flash and dash out of concerns that someone will struggle with that. We still need to be honest and up front and find chemistry organically. Because that’s what will create a lasting love with someone, and it will help us meet people who don’t subscribe to stereotypes and close-minded mantras about dating someone that’s divorced, with kids. Which brought about some real moments of growth for Jim, and a second chance with Kristin, through honesty and openness.

Which really did bring forth quite the lovely follow up, one that showcased a great deal about modern dating and what’s amazing… is that the show took the time to expand upon romantic concepts further to explore another side of the coin. Such as how we keep our current relationships healthy, which was explored via Trey and Julia. Because Julia revealed when she agreed to support Jim in this yoga endeavor, that she once wanted him to try new things, including a bevy of other wishes via a list she made before they were divorced. A list that Trey got hold of and followed to a tee, much to some embarrassment since it made him a showoff. But the point of going this route, was to teach all of us, to find a way to know how we can be better partners to our partners. So, they feel validated and seen.

All of which made for another wondrous story from a series that is so unique and so refreshing. Because this is the kind of storytelling we just don’t see in sitcoms, and it was handled in a magical manner by being both endearing and hilarious. Since watching Jim endure hot yoga for the first time was quite hilarious. But what matters most is the original nature of this story, and that it showcased how sitcoms can serialize concepts and help their characters grow in a manner that is both organic and inspiring, and of course… the lessons it taught us are relevant and wonderful. Because we can all use a little advice on how to be a better partner and how best to attract someone when we’re back on the market after years of commitment, and it will be interesting to see what other amazing lessons await us as season one of this magnificent show continues along. Until next time.

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